When do kids move from the “I want to help” phase to the “don’t ask me to do anything” phase? Fortunately my nephew BRT, age 6, is firmly in the first category. He came over last night and we went to a hockey game. He spent the night, then we had our traditional breakfast (pancakes at Bennigan’s) and he helped me make Christmas cookies and decorate the mini-empire.
My nephew is very fun and warm-hearted. He often says things like, “I really like that lamp” or “This is a very pretty decoration.”
I don’t have a lot of decorations, but the ones I have are very special. Almost all were gifts from LHK and I think of her when we put them up. I also have an advent calendar, one of those paper jobs, but I love it. Even as I kid I loved opening a little window each day.
BRT did an excellent job with the cookies (he has a unique two-handed sprinkle style for maximum coverage) and with placing the ornaments and nativity scene. Perhaps my favorite moment was when he called a halt to our chores so we could dance to the “Farmer Jason” CD that was playing. It was barely 8 a.m. and he was filled with energy.
I hope he had fun. I have the least-kid-friendly abode in the state, and I’m sure someday he’ll be telling a therapist about his visits to his aunt’s, where he couldn’t touch the white sofa or run on the tile or push the water dispenser -- but he could always dance to Farmer Jason.